Concerned Singles is the community
where you'll find
Men Seeking Women
Women Seeking Men
Men Seeking Men
Women Seeking Women
who share your progressive values and are in sync with your philosophical and political outlook.
The Concerned Singles Difference.
If you're looking for something more substantial and satisfying than a McRomance, you've come to the right place.
Deepak Chopra has observed that "There is a restless kind of consumer shopping for partners, as if the right one can be found by totting up a potential mate's pluses and minuses until the number of pluses matches some mythical standards." But we know that many of you out there don't take that approach. That's why we don't ask you to fill out a questionnaire, but rather allow you to craft your own brief self-description. This profile is meant to define rather than merely describe you. It is not a resume or an autobiography but, as one member put it, a "sixty-word haiku" that conveys something about the fundamental you, rather than mere facts.
We also agree with Antoine de Saint Exupery that "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly. What is essential is invisible to the eye." And that's the main reason why we don't post member photos on the site. Of course at some point during your correspondence with a possible someone, you may decide to exchange pictures. But feedback from our members confirms our idea that getting to know someone, really getting to know them, is a matter of exchanging ideas, letting each other know who you are deep inside, what your beliefs and values are, how you feel about the world and about yourself.
Connections forged at this deeper level also have more staying power, as is borne out by the many stories we've gotten over the years. Check out some of our Happy Endings for yourself, and discover why we call Concerned Singles your first choice for relationships that last!
Discover why so many people are telling us "CS, I Love You!"
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